Michael Rayel

How to Communicate so Your Partner will Listen

When communication between couple fails, anything happens. Conflict, argument, break-up, and worse divorce happen in a short period. I have seen it in my practice. Miscommunication has often been an easy passport to emotional turmoil and chaotic existence. What are some ways to communicate so your partner will listen? Set understanding as the main goal When dealing with your partner, always aim for... (posted by Michael Rayel 3 years 103 days ago.)

Six Ways to Teach Your Kids Responsibility

Although I intend this article for children, I have to admit that many adults may still learn from my message. Teaching responsibility is not just for kids. It's pressing to pass on this important trait while young-when the mind can still be molded and when the heart is still thirsty for change. What are the six ways to teach responsibility to your children? Create positive relationship When you develop a good... (posted by Michael Rayel 3 years 103 days ago.)

Emotionally Intelligent Christmas Celebration

Kids love Christmas! Majority of us still celebrate the fun. But why is it that some people are stressed even by the thought of it? How come others feel depressed rather than ecstatic? Is there anything about Christmas we have to dread? I respect people's view on this and sympathize with those who feel different about Christmas, who feel rushed and exhausted. What are some emotionally intelligent ways... (posted by Michael Rayel 3 years 157 days ago.)

Using Anger to Your Advantage

"You must be kidding Mike! There's no advantage in being angry. It only brings trouble," an acquaintance argued one summer evening. I kept quiet as I watched his children run around uncontrollably as they screamed unprintable words. It's obvious; he's too nice towards his children. Had he used anger more appropriately, they could have been more behave and could have shown more respect. It's a misconception and... (posted by Michael Rayel 3 years 244 days ago.)

Simple Ways to Solve your Problem

One great thing about holidays is that it provides a convenient escape from the challenges and anxieties of daily living. Life can be tough but holidays can serve as a quick, temporary relief. But now that the excitement of Christmas and New Year is over, it's about time to sit down and grapple with reality. Obviously, after weeks of running around and spending sprees, now is the right moment to face your . .... (posted by Michael Rayel 3 years 244 days ago.)

How to Deal with Your Child’s Inappropriate Behaviour

Children bombard families with many challenging behaviours. As parents, we are delighted if their behaviour is mostly positive. But what if your kids constantly display harmful behaviour? How are you going to deal with it? It can get frustrating for a mother who is yelled at every time she says no' to her child. In my clinic, I've seen parents who feel desperate when their son or daughter who... (posted by Michael Rayel 3 years 244 days ago.)